I’ve touched on this before; this is nothing new. Today is Valentine’s Day, or VD to some (and there is a reason for that which is inappropriate for this blog).
Let’s talk about what this holiday has meant in the past: People fortunate enough to be in relationships spend massive amounts of hard-earned money in the hopes of pleasing his or her partner. If you don’t have a partner, you become an outcast.
All this “love” only occurs one ONE PARTICULAR DAY OF THE YEAR. What happens during the rest of the year?
Life goes back to normal, as all these supposed “lovers” wait another 364 or 365 days (leap year) to express their love.
If you truly love somebody, you should want to express that love all year long. Valentine’s Day makes no sense whatsoever when love is thought of in its truest, purest sense.
So what do I recommend for the “singles” out there? Love.
Love those around you. All the time. The Beatles once sang that “the love you take is equal to the love you make.” This is true.
Love even though you are angry, hurt, and heartbroken.
For the rest of you, show the people you love that you care ALL YEAR LONG. Do something nice for them. Don’t cut them out of your life for a day just because of Hallmark. These people need someone to show that they care today the most out of all the days in the year.
If you truly love them, you’ll let them know.
May you find peace with yourself, within yourself.
PS – I love all of my readers. Without any of you, The Aspie Epilogue would not be what it is today.